Alzheimer’s Disease, as often portrayed in books and shows, usually begins with subtle memory lapses, increased confusion, and changes in mood and personality. As the disease progresses, disorientation and fear can grow. The loss of precious memories — the ones that stitch our lives together, shape who we are, and connect us to those we love — is a painful reality for those living with Alzheimer’s. They must confront this reality daily, and perhaps the most heart-wrenching question is:
What if one day, I can no longer remember the face of someone I love?
It’s a frightening disease. It affects memory, thinking, behaviour, and the ability to carry out everyday tasks. Though often used interchangeably with ‘dementia,’ Alzheimer’s is specifically a progressive brain disorder that gradually makes independent daily life more challenging. Understanding what Alzheimer’s is helps us recognise why these early changes in memory, thinking, and behaviour are so important to notice.
Recognising the Signs
Alzheimer’s usually creeps in quietly, so the early signs can be easy to miss. Some things to look out for include:
Forgetting recent conversations or events
Struggling with everyday planning or problem-solving
Feeling confused even in familiar places
Misplacing things and losing the ability to retrace steps
Withdrawing from social activities
Changes in mood and personality
If you notice these signs in yourself or a loved one, don’t brush them aside. Early recognition not only opens the door to timely care, but it also helps families prepare and adjust with understanding.
Where to Begin
Noticing the early signs is just the first step. Visiting a polyclinic or GP for an initial assessment can help ease some of the confusion, constant guessing, and worry that often come with uncertainty. From there, you can begin receiving guidance, support, and answers. You don’t have to navigate this alone.
Support often comes from a multidisciplinary team of healthcare professionals, including doctors, psychologists, occupational therapists, and social workers. The type of support may change over time, but the goal remains the same: to ensure that every step of the journey is guided with understanding, compassion, and care.
The Role of a Psychologist
As psychologists, we’re here to walk alongside you and your loved ones at every stage of Alzheimer’s. We help you make sense of memory changes and cognitive challenges. We also support assessment and diagnosis, so you can better understand what is happening.
As the disease progresses, we offer psychological support, practical strategies to manage daily challenges, and guidance for caregivers on how to maintain emotional connection and understanding. We want to help you and your loved ones feel supported, empowered, and able to focus on meaningful moments together.
Simple Steps for Daily Life
Small, simple strategies can make a big difference for both those living with Alzheimer’s and their caregivers. Some ideas include:
Keep a consistent routine. Simple schedules help reduce confusion and give the individual a sense of security and grounding.
Label and organise spaces. Clear labels on doors, drawers, or cupboards make it easier to find things and maintain independence.
Use memory tools. Calendars, notebooks, and phone reminders can support memory and help track appointments or daily tasks.
Break tasks into small steps. Doing things step by step, rather than all at once, can make activities more manageable and less frustrating.
These little steps can help maintain independence, ease stress, and create space for meaningful moments of connection and joy.
Life Beyond the Diagnosis
We know that the diagnosis can feel like the end. It’s a difficult reality to confront – individuals and their families are often wracked with feelings of fear, hopelessness, and devastation. We want to remind you that even though it hurts deeply, life is still worth living. Alzheimer’s doesn’t define who you are – the life you’ve lived and continue to live still matter.
To the caregivers who work tirelessly, we see you. We know that you’re scared, exhausted, and might even feel like you cannot go on. Yet, your love, patience, and dedication make a world of difference. You are not alone, and it is okay to seek support and care for yourself too.
Behind every person with Alzheimer’s is a life full of moments still worth celebrating. A diagnosis does not erase dignity, love, or hope. With understanding and support, living well with Alzheimer’s is possible.
